“Hate the sin and not the sinner.” Gandhi (1869-1948)

Hate faulty social engineering but not the people. It is appropriate and necessary to be righteously angry or to hate what is being done to our children, families, faith and society. It is normal to hate faulty No-fault divorce laws but it is never just nor ethical to hate individuals responsible for betrayal and toxic sexual trends ranging from addiction, contraception, abortion, cohabitation, homosexuality or adulteration of our families through divorce and remarriage. Contrary to modern bunk, for almost every divorce there is one innocent spouse and one guilty spouse. If given just laws or support, innocent spouses in emotional or physical danger would separate but would not divorce or remarry. Marrying a divorced person 50 years ago was personally and socially unacceptable. Our need for truth or justice to protect our families and faith did not change–OUR LAWS DID!

Unfortunately, because of No-fault’s injustice, most innocent spouses and their children never had a chance. After the abandoning or adulterating spouse initiated a lifetime of agony, divorce laws and pros were guaranteed to make the violations mandated, legal and permanent—after years of such intimidation or force, escape from self and other abuse or betrayal has become almost humanly impossible. Tragically, despite proof of civil or religious violations, our society’s family Crisis continues to escalate. To date, no-fault divorce and authoritative professionals continue to give guilty or morally ill spouses the right to do almost anything they want with innocent spouses, children, faith and society. Needless to say, no family, faith or society can survive or thrive under such brutal conditions.

Regrettably, until “experts” reinstate justice and empowerment, the only option for victims is to search out genuine leaders to initiate change. Although the opposite should be true, victims and their children have no representation nor hope. To parent under such conditions has been catastrophic and extremely harsh on all the children. Because victims haven’t had ANY choice or voice, their need for moral support is obvious—oddly, most victims will not be validated nor helped whether they reach out to their relatives, friends, lawyers, therapists or churches. Under the domination of the ABA, APA, AMA and toxic social trends orchestrated by public media, most victims will be treated with superficial indifference—if they object, they will be treated with hostility, wrongful accusations and all types of threats or barriers to maintaining their own integrity or ethical parenting authority. As such, Catholic Halo hopes to serve as a temporary missing link between common law, sense and religion. Even though mutual moral support is not enough—for NOW—it might be the only way to manage the pain or to maintain truth, compassion, sanity and our faith!

Dos and Don’ts of Traditional Values and People … Jesus said, “Those who are well do not need a physician, but the sick do. Go and learn the meaning of the words, ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ I did not come to call the righteous but sinners.” Mt 9:12-13

Jesus: A Cause of Division: “Do not think that I have come to bring peace upon the earth. I have come to bring not peace but the sword. For I have come to set a man ‘against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law-against her mother-in-law; and one’s enemies will be those of his household.’” Mt 10:34-36

Sayings about Divorce: … “Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and the one who marries a woman divorced from her husband commmits adultery.” Lk 16:18

Teaching about Adultery: … “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you, everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Mt. 5:27-28

A Woman Caught in Adultery: … “‘Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.’ Again he bent down and wrote on the ground. And in response, they went away one by one, beginning with the elders. So he was left alone with the woman before him. Then Jesus straightened up and said to her, ‘Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?’ She replied, ‘No one, sir.’ Then Jesus said, ‘Neither do I condemn you. Go, [and] from now on do not sin any more.’” Jn 8:7-11

Cleansing of the Temple: “He found in the temple area those who sold oxen, sheep, and doves, as well as the money-changers seated there. He made a whip out of cords and drove them all out of the temple area, with the sheep and oxen, and spilled the coins of the money-changers and overturned their tables, and to those who sold doves he said, ‘Take these out of here, and stop making my Father’s house a marketplace.’” Jn 2:14-16

Denunciation of the Scribes and Pharisees: … “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites. You lock the kingdom of heaven before human beings. You do not enter yourselves, nor do you allow entrance to those trying to enter.” Mt. 23:13

Temptations to Sin: “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe [in me] to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were put around his neck and he were thrown into the sea. If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter into life maimed than with two hands to go into Gehenna, into the unquenchable fire. … And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out. Better for you to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into Gehenna, where ‘their worm does not die, and the fire is not quenched.’” Mk 9:42-48

Avoiding Sin: … “Whoever sins belongs to the devil, because the devil has sinned from the beginning. Indeed, the Son of God was revealed to destroy the works of the devil. No one who is begotten by God commits sin, because God’s seed remains in him; he cannot sin because he is begotten by God. In this way, the children of God and the children of the devil are made plain; no one who fails to act in righteousness belongs to God, nor anyone who does not love his brother.” I Jn 3:8-10

Saying on Children and the Kingdom: … “People were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them, and when the disciples saw this, they rebuked them. Jesus, however, called the children to himself and said, ‘Let the children come to me and do not prevent them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Amen, I say to you, whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it.’” Lk 18:15-17

Pearls before Swine … “Do not give what is holy to dogs, or throw your pearls before swine, lest they trample them underfoot, and turn and tear you to pieces.” Mt 7:6

The Betrayal and Arrest of Jesus: “”Jesus said to him, ‘Judas, are you betraying the Son of Man with a kiss?’” Lk 22:48

The Greatest Commandment: “He said in reply, ‘You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your being, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.’” Lk 10:27-28

The Golden Rule! … “Do to others whatever you would have them do to you. This is the law and the prophets.” Mt 7:12

The Parable of the Lost Sheep: “What man among you having a hundred sheep and losing one of them would not leave the ninety-nine in the desert and go after the lost one until he finds it? And when he does find it, he sets it on his shoulders with great joy and, upon his arrival home, he calls together his friends and neighbors and says to them, ‘Rejoice with me because I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you, in just the same way there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous people who have no need of repentance.” Lk 15:4-7

The Parable of the Lost Son: … “But now we must celebrate and rejoice, because your brother was dead and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found.’” Lk 15:32

Moral Disorders … “I wrote you in my letter not to associate with immoral people, not at all referring to the immoral of this world or the greedy and robbers or idolaters; for you would then have to leave the world. But I now write to you not to associate with anyone named a brother, if he is immoral, greedy, an idolater, a slanderer, a drunkard, or a robber, not even to eat with such a person. For why should I be judging outsiders? Is it not your business to judge those within? God will judge those outside. ‘Purge the evil person from your midst.’” 1 Cor 5:9-13

The 3 of Life … Polish for Tarnished Halos, Laws and Global Warming for our Soul—Free Will & Freedom as a gift & responsibility of our present, past & future … from the Holy See to our shores, homes, hearts, minds or souls and all around the world … Until Civil Laws are in harmony with God’s Laws, all of us will continue to suffer.

“To Err is Human; To Forgive, Divine.” Our circle of life is just like a rosary … as we continue our quest, every prayer or kindness becomes our crown … Yet, unconditional love and unconditional forgiveness are not one and the same—True forgiveness can only come after a confession or an apology, remorse, change, responsibility and love … As such, none of us can sing & dance through life until Uncle Sam reclaims stability and until every Sam & Samantha have the right to regain dignity. “Divine Mercy … Jesus, I Trust in You”