“Sanctuary … ’Lord, prepare me to be a Sanctuary … Pure and holy, tried and true … With Thanksgiving, I’ll be a living … Sanctuary for You’”

 Forum AdvoCATES … Samctuary@aol.com … Forum Rules … Mission Statement: Love of My Life … aka … Love for All of Life’s Goods: God, Self, Family, Nation & Creation 

Samctuary … Center for Protection, Moral Support & Advocacy to Annul Harmful Engineering of our Lives, Families & Society

Please be our guest & enjoy our quest—polishing our halos with truth, honor, wisdom, compassion, justice, gratitude and humor should be more of a love-fest than a blame & shame game or an IQ test!  There can be quite a difference between academic education and character formation.  When it comes to private and public relationships, personal experience and a wise heart can be more valuable than a diploma.  Naturally, experience can be a great teacher, only if we learn from our mistakes—and God knows, we all make them!  Consequently, justified anger, complaints and criticisms must be directed at behaviors but never at people.  “Hate the sin and not the sinner.”

Polishing one’s own halo is hard enough—helping others to polish their halos can be quite a task.  All of us have been there and done that—some people will thank us for our efforts and gentle admonition while most will treat even constructive criticism with a great deal of hostility. 

Since we get very passionate about political or religious “differences of opinions,” discussions about private matters can range from gratitude to rage.  At times, even honest truth can put one in serious emotional danger or even at risk for physical abuse.  To ensure safety, honor, ease of communication or to protect the guilty & the innocent, during the test-phase of this forum REAL NAMES ARE NOT ALLOWED.*  Along with use of private pseudonyms, references to professional or public individuals & institutions must be made with charity or verifiable authenticity.  Posts containing brutality or obscenity will not be approved. 

*Exceptions, private matters & information can be handled in private: Samctuary@aol.com.  Only those members who are already using their professional or last names in public or on the Internet may continue to do so if authenticity of their names can be verified through a private e-mail. 

In short, due to pending personal and legal matters, some of our members use monikers or pen names while others are free to use their legal names.  

ADMINISTRATOR …  Samctuary@aol.com

Summation … Pleasure & Treasure Hunt for Traditional American Values

Social Con-Fusion MUST End … Annul Damages, NOT Marriages … End Lies, NOT Truth … Protect People, NOT Abuse … Not on their best day & not on our worst day, should morally ill adults be free to use, bruise or abuse their victims brutally & endlessly—innocent men, women or children should not be forced to divorce from their own goods nor to suffer or pay for a lifetime of avoidable pain.  Condemnation or Defamation of Victims & Empowerment or Glorification of Perpetrators is as illogical & harmful to each individual as it is to all secular & religious foundations within our society.  As such, our main mission is to provide moral support or empowerment for all victims and to initiate Reforms within Media & Family Courts so as to regain Custody of our own Children, Goods or Souls.  Because our society’s Crisis is so enormous, private intervention without political, professional or religious leadership will never suffice.  Unfortunately, most of our leaders have given up years ago—some are misinformed or overruled while others are already adulterous or hazardous as hell.  With no laws or pros to protect us and our children, who will?

“We all played poorly.  It wasn’t just one guy’s fault.  It was a real team effort.”  Being a product of a toxic social environment, majority of us are as guilty as we are innocent—whether one is nursing a broken heart and living in broken, foster, nursing homes or mental & penal institutions, urgent need for a “Hail Mary” is obvious.  There have been too many warnings to ignore or question them.  After all, it is quite normal to question God’s plan for humanity or truth about angels, visions or crying statues.  Nonetheless, it is not normal, intelligent nor kind to ignore or question undeniable pain & tears of children, men or women within our daily reality.  Perhaps the American Psychological Association could reinvent “sensitivity, morality & mental stability” instead of inventing more diseases or excuses for countless violations.  One would think that after some members of the APA, AMA & ABA are recertified in “sensitivity & authenticity,” they could do the same for some members of the ABC, NBC, CBS & all the “other” culprits.

Trinity for Dignity:  Abba, Uncle Sam & Americans … For too long, “overall experts” have been treating roots of our demise & salvation as the untouchable third rail.  To date, most of us are not free to be in charge of our own lives, children & destiny—instead of touchdowns, we’re destined for put-downs.  Our Crisis should be illegal because it is illegal.  If truth be told, our basic needs and rights are virtually the same regardless of our gender, race, age, status, education, finances or religious orientation.  Hopefully, for the sake of all children—young and old—our mission for truth, justice & empowerment will be fruitful as well as compassionate and joyful.  (One would think that as long as fruitful harmonizes with truthful, Jimmy Buffett’s “Fruitcakes” would make a great primer and food for thought) … May God Bless the US & US … Forum AdvoCATES … Buddies of Truth-Empowered Spirituality

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