Host: Mary Rose … Samctuary@aol.com … Mission Statement … Love of My Life … aka … Love for All of Life’s Goods: God, Self, Family, Nation & Creation

Resolutions for Halo Misfits … Love of My Life … Idea-Logical Summary

Political Leaders and Campaigns, Pundits and Information or Bandits and a Fail-Safe Outcome … Who’s Who & Who’s Kidding Whom? As if, Humanitarians or Benedict Arnolds? Can the content of one’s character be honorable in public but not in private? Is love of one’s family the same as love of one’s country? As if, Public Servants or Savants?

“Let the people think they govern, and they will be governed.” Nowadays, politics, campaigns, polls & other contributing factors have a great deal in common with many religious institutions—both seem more of a business than an honorable calling to serve and protect our families and nation. Because mainstream Americans have become secondary to private & public agendas of those into abuse of power, results are usually in before campaigns begin. As such, no matter how hard we try, after swimming in tsunami tears for years, most of us are destined to sink below the line of dignity, poverty or both. Despite rosy reports from those at the top, with countless white-advantaged Americans unable to enjoy the fruits of their labor, chances for true love & joy of life for most African-Americans, Latinos & others are even slimmer. Although our society’s Crisis CAN and MUST be resolved, most experts or leaders are not willing to rock the vote nor the boat—even when they run out of distractions, ammo or acorns, the big thorn in our side is NEVER even mentioned. Quite obviously, the ADD syndrome of most experts or luminaries does not ADD up—whether they’re recycling recession, suppression, oppression or depression most of them rarely stumble upon truth, contrition, accountability & justice—as most “experts” continue to shame & blame the innocent, they add insult to injury by stigmatizing & crippling their victims with “depression.” Bipolar-Bisexual-Bipartisan? From obesity and our government’s food-pyramid to our experts’ fool-pyramid and obscenity? NOW, as never before, experts can alibi every lie, enhance God’s laws on demand, create a new syndrome on demand, create a pill to make their victims morally ill & prefabricate lawyers to file premeditated lies.

Fair & Balanced? NOT! … Although blind leading the blind comes to mind—as “some experts” dis all constructive criticism—all efforts for REAL change are squashed like ladybugs. Most do not want to be warned, informed or involved and accidentally on purpose, opt for denial. Consequently, BIG spending by Republicans & Democrats is dissected ad nauseam while economy’s evil twin or our “other” problem continues to be dissed. Few things are as hazardous to a society as corrupt cultural engineering laced with lack of empowerment. Although it’s treated as America’s Top Secret, all of us are well aware that SPECIAL interests are powerful enough to orchestrate and continue to silence illegal violations in family courts and media—depriving people of private & public protection is the same as cutting off their wings—then, to ensure total submission to the two-headed monsters guarding separation of church & state, even wings of guardian angels got clipped. Needless to say, most of us never had enough clout or money to protect ourselves from violations of those who empowered themselves to be “so special.” By NOW, even though they operate under a new alias, there is still nothing gentle about the new green giants—having undergone an Extreme makeover only made them more unrepentant and more determined to change US and the US.

“Good or bad”—all change, laws, actions or behaviors continue ONLY because they benefit someone’s agenda. Could it be that brainwashing and manipulating individuals, families, laws, economy, votes and all other vital realms of our society is good for US? One would think that if all the “brains” of the left wing establishment were as intelligent as they claim, our Crisis would have been over years ago. Since that’s not the case, can those on the right side do any better? While Gov. Huckabee, Ms. Coulter, Mr. Hannity, Ms. Ingraham are only a few of numberless leaders fighting for truth & justice, most of their efforts are focused on the public side of our Crisis—sadly, most lawyers or contributors on FOX seem to follow the same agenda. Consequently, despite all the talent & opportunity, as private roots of our Crisis keep growing deeper, leaders & followers no longer see the forest nor the trees. As such, Mr. O’Reilly’s call to protect the soul of our country is very noble yet almost unrealistic because an average person can’t even protect their own soul or the soul of their own child. Even religious institutions—”specialists in nurturing & protecting of souls”—have no internal laws or guts to protect souls of their own followers. As they play it safe and sing to the choir, those in need of most help continue to get pulverized. Similarly, stable singles or people in honorable marriages will usually misunderstand our society’s Crisis. As a result, without social support, laws or leaders to protect our families & society, danger & pain can only escalate. After all, separation of church & state is not much different from separation of church and state of mind or logic. “Religion is as necessary to reason as reason is to religion. The one cannot exist without the other.”

Because God hasn’t been granting any interviews, some might consider reality of a “soul” as “doubtful or unverifiable.” That’s not the case with our physical reality—no religious or secular scholar can deny that lives of every father, mother & child are as inseparable as love & money are two of the major necessities of life. Even though our fearless leaders are already on top of our Economic Crisis, one can’t help but wonder why they ignore society’s “other” Crisis or why Families continue to get “No Respect.” Quite obviously, when it comes to character & family matters, one would think progress, laws & experts haven’t been kind—after all, it’s not very loving nor intelligent for ethical parents to be treated like archaic heels while real heels are treated like heroes & heroines. None of us should be surprised or clueless about fatherlessness & motherlessness. With patients and adulterous soulmates running the asylum, not all of us have been able to be stable nor remain in charge of our lives & families. It’s tragic—once “experts” altered the natural design of life for “childbirth, marriage, parenting & aging,” the brutal price for our CHANGE is mostly paid for by vulnerable & helpless children.

On surface, our society’s Crisis seems to be about discrepancies between modern & traditional ideologies. Such might have been the case years ago but today our Crisis is much deeper—consequently, as our valiant cavalry chips away at the tip of the iceberg or its public side, the snow queens & snow men at the bottom or on the private side, are free to do almost anything their cold hearts desire. Tragically, the speed & numbers of new mutations & snow jobs rising to the top are so ginormous & dangerous that only a two-pronged attack will suffice—to end the snowball-effect, private and public reforms are crucial. Reform of one without the other would be counterproductive and long-term, even more harmful.

Because our Crisis started decades ago, modern values are already enjoying liberal exposure in private and in public. The fact that even traditionalists have been accessorizing their values with liberal bling is not as tragic as the desire to change their roots and be in cahoots with liberals. By NOW, most libs are well connected. As if, when Ms. DeGeneres cannot use her Oprah lifeline, she can always make “A Phone Call to God” or Play God. On the other side, with our friends at FOX sporting their own agenda, all one could do was to kiss the hands of politicians kissing & dissing babies. When that failed, one could always try to climb over the wall of shame to reach some of the tarnished luminaries or “experts,” and after all was said and done, continue talking to the wall. To date, most conservatives can only beg, bleed, bend, bow, blend or blog to death. Despite popularity of FNN, EWTN, conservative radio shows or blogging here & there, most traditionalists only have the right to remain silent. After all, talking about rights is not the same as having or enjoying them. If people were informed that civil or religious rights are no longer applicable, as they should be, most people could be prepared & spared the shock of being ambushed during a private Crisis. In fact, because libs have been allowed to impose their values on our society for so long, more deception and less power are on their way because liberals made it almost illegal to “reimpose” traditional values on our society. With liberals being “so special” that only they have rights, instead of changing or amending laws they demand that we change or alter people. Quite obviously, if anyone thinks that mainstream conservatives have power over their own lives or the right to enjoy their religion, one would think they’ve been iced by the libs. None of us should be surprised—after all, how can traditional values or the Bible compete with a Direct Line to God or Ms. Oprah?

Even though the odds of success are slim, since not all success is good, MAYBE a few words of wisdom can help. When it comes to our society’s Crisis, the family does matter. “The Rest of the Story” was never a “Secret.” Simply put, some libs are afraid of global warming because it will melt their frozen hearts or minds—others, those in real deep freeze, are so afraid of defrosting that they never leave home without sonblock & sunglasses but when they do, rain or shine, they’re always under their umbrellas! Needless to say, odds for liberal understanding of sonshine are slim. With all that being sad, one would think that after smoking, “guns, Elisabeth Hasselbeck’s t-shirts & Sarah Palin Barbies” will be next to get axed and then, the real deal will become illegal: Pig Roasts! (Could it be that Republicans & Democrats are wrong? Wouldn’t the word swine be more in line?)

If truth be told, because some of the roasts are so vile and hurtful they should be marshmallowed. Then, there are roasts like the one organized by the Catholic Archdiocese of NY where an estimated $4 million was raised for needy children. As a side benefit, even the campaign was raised to the level that SHOULD exist between every liberal and conservative in America. Naturally, only a dynamic-do-all attack can accomplish such a feat: We need Joe the Plumber to fix all those drips at Fox who accused Senator Obama of fathering two black children in wedlock. Yet, imaginary rhetoric at a roast, is not the same as empty promises in real life.

Are public promises different from private promises? One “can’t shake the feeling that MOST people” actually believe in marriage and in having children in wedlock. After all, whether we’re conservative or liberal, almost all of us marry because we think that we love each other and that our marriage will last—in all likelihood, if we did not believe that our marriage will last, we would not marry in the first place and we would not work like a horse nor would we consider having children. Similarly, if more people were informed about the “true” pain and hardship of divorce instead of popular and dangerous myths, even less people would consider divorce as an option. While all of us will often test, stretch or deny the truth, through our desire to marry & through our vows, vast majority of us do agree with Jesus:

Marriage & Divorce: The Pharisees approached and asked, “Is it lawful for a husband to divorce his wife?” They were testing him. He said to them in reply, “What did Moses command you?”  They replied, “Moses permitted him to write a bill of divorce and dismiss her.”  But Jesus told them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts he wrote you this commandment. But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother [and be joined to his wife], and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” Mk 10:2-9 

Could such a statement be referring to the spouses themselves, to officials & professionals or to men or women who seduce spouses away from their mates and children? 

In the house the disciples again question him about this. He said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her; and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.” Mk 10:10-12 

With the bad rap that marriage has been taking for years, many of us seem to be hard of hearing or suffering from hardness of our hearts.  As such, the same message is consistently repeated in our hearts as well as in the Bible. 

Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and the one who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery. Lk 16:18 

Needless to say, not one of us goes through life without a closet full of blunders because even mental adultery is not an option. 

But I say to you, everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  Mt 5:28

As such, our bro would have never left us without a first-aid kit for our soul. 

Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her. … Then Jesus straightened up and said to her, ‘Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?’ She replied, ‘No one, sir.’ Then Jesus said, ‘Neither do I condemn you. Go, [and] from now on do not sin any more.’” Jn 8:7,10-11

Last but not least, child custody issues might be more important than all the rest—because Jesus is as much a cause of love as of division, how does one achieve “complete disassociation” for self or for one’s child when the law of the land will demand one to share custody with an unbeliever or adulterous spouse?

Divorce is an injury unlike any other—while “loved ones” cause the most pain, professionals and laws cause the most damage. Except for physical abuse, almost all victims of emotional, intellectual or religious abuse will be overruled by their toxic spouses, experts, laws and society at large. By default of No-Fault, once we enable immoral adults to betray, hurt, divorce and marry as often as they want, we also empower them to parent “anyone’s” children in any unfit way they see fit. Although most of us love and care for our children to the best of our ability, too many children are being forced to be home alone or with persons or interests other than their natural parents. Oddly, instead of a long-overdue intervention, the ABA, AMA & APA—as the main hosts of our Crisis—continue to dispense more helplessness, con-fusion, band-aids, condoms, pills along with a plethora of other gadgets, thrills and frills. By now, they’ve tried everything except truth, justice and empowerment. As such, cheating, divorce & remarriage are becoming as popular as contraception, abortion, casual sex, cohabitation, homosexuality or swinging—worst of all, we are no longer in the business of protecting or consoling the victims nor healing the perpetrators. The honorable traditional triage is quickly becoming a mirage. Oddly, instead of truthful disclosure or an “Out of Business” sign, most experts merely closed their hearts & minds. As such, reverence & honor are now being replaced by the pompous, prosperous and infamous “coaches, judges & enforcers” of modern Divorce Mills. Needless to say, it’s not their fault–it’s No-Fault’s. Yet, because only “experts” have enough clout to change laws, the ball has been in their court all along. All of us are well aware that laws are an integral part of any society. Nonetheless, some experts are so mindless and heartless that they find it easier to defend unjust laws than violated clients. While rare cases of injustice can be found within all levels of the U.S. Courts, injustice within Family Courts takes place on a daily basis.

Although there are countless NEW programs to safeguard NEW marriages, there are no official plans to end the injustice going back almost 4 decades or as recent as yesterday. Justice, truth, integrity, gratitude & love are so closely related that they are inseparable. As such, because it is humanly impossible to attain true love on top of another person’s pain, none of us will enjoy peace and protection until experts change their tune instead of US. The main reason ALL programs have been ineffective is because religious and secular pros no longer listen, hear & feel the pain—if they did, divorce reform would already be history. Leaders or experts who truly comprehend the victims or truly regret their own divorce would not allow others to suffer needlessly—while there are a few brave souls riding on the underground railroad and fighting for justice, some keep getting pushed off or lost while others continue to stay the course. It’s hard to say if Senator Clinton was referring to this as the Grassroots Movement because her comments were very brief, and like all other candidates, superficial—after all, no leader or parent has time to watch the grass get greener while our children are suffering from one of the gravest travesties of the 20th century. How much longer should we allow brutal and avoidable violations to continue—it’s already the 21st century!

If No-Fault laws only violated adults, one could almost understand professional & public indifference because most adults CAN help themselves. Because No-Fault causes MOST damage to parents with children, “religious” families are destined to suffer the most painful damages because of their beliefs. With helpless children as the main casualties of divorce, it is unconscionable for No-Fault to be treated as the proverbial third rail. To date, most leaders won’t protect our children and most parents can’t. In fact, in around 80% of all divorces, rights of the innocent spouse are secondary to the rights of the guilty spouse. When it comes to religious marriages, statistics of religious violations are even higher and by nature, more brutal, damaging & painful. As such, although it does take 2 to make a marriage, experts need to get over the myth that it takes 2 to break a marriage. Since all “leading leaders” have been ignoring objections, damages & pain of the victims for so long, the only option was to throw the book at them: (The Script, Back from Betrayal, Stolen Vows, What God Has Joined Together: The Annulment Crisis in American Catholicism)—only a minute sampling from an endless list of books & statistics needs to be listed because “most experts are expert” at dodging truth & justice to the point of absurdity—if that was not the case, our children would already be enjoying stable homes and society. One would think that the sooner “experts” get over themselves, other myths & violations can be put to rest. Such as, “A bad father is better than a no father.” Since many extremists or feminists are determined to turn God into a woman and a wimp, they must believe, “A bad mother is better than a no mother.” Although the jury might still be out on the “genderless” and “gentle” nature of heaven, facts about our reality here & now speak for themselves.

Tragically, with most boys & girls being groomed into con-fusion by questionable experts or adulterous spouses with fool bragging rights to their betrayals & trophies, most no longer distinguish between truth & lie, lust & love, good & bad or honor & dishonor. As if, friend, parent or foe? When does a loved one become an enemy? If one truly loves one’s family, friends & enemies, one has no need to divorce! Even though being married 5 times seems as morally ill as having 5 spouses all at once, adulterous spouses continue to con us to believe their lies and confuse us to think of lust, betrayal, divorce & remarriage as true love. If that lie does not work, there is always the myth about one’s search for a soulmate. If that doesn’t do the job, the myth about the “unhappy” person falling out of love deserving to be “happy” no matter how much unhappy trauma one inflicts upon one’s “loved ones.” Although there are no legitimate reasons for divorce & remarriage, the list of myths, excuses or violations and abusers is endless. By now, we not only support them but many of us aspire to emulate them. With all that being sad—thanks to the ABA, AMA, APA, ABC, CBS, NBC & other major media—our society seems a long way from justice, contrition, reconciliation, true love and REAL protection for all children.

If there is a God, there is a devil … If there is a Heaven, there is a hell … If there is Good Success, there is Bad Success … Almost 40 years of liberal violations & a gag order on truth have been very harsh on our society. With new crimes on the horizon daily and with most violent criminals usually in jails, we seem to be at risk from “other” criminal elements. Whether it’s a private or public affair, most big brats, cads & their guns are quite infamous: big egos, wallets, diplomas, confidence, arrogance, selfishness, abuse & manipulation, with the added bonus of pinocchio hearts, enlarged breasts, reduced noses along with bigger & brighter smiles than ever—oftentimes, the healthier they get physically, the more they get sick spiritually. When family and responsibility get in the way of special interests, marriage, divorce and child custody become mere pieces of paper—because they have no conscience, they are in ecstasy while their victims are in agony—then, instead of healing the natural way, they’ll skip PTSS and move on to “other” victims or interests & addictions such as BDS, PDS or all other forms of LDS. Liberals, libertarians, secular progressives, extremists? Since art of distraction is their game, as they parrot, demand, impose & disseminate politically correct economy, health care, education, sports or entertainment—they purposefully silence or omit the crux of life itself or truth about core character issues vital to all individuals, families & society. If families, religious institutions, courts & the Republican Party continued to be the keepers of traditional values, private matters could continue to be private. However, lack of authoritative leadership, checks & balances, allowed self and other abuses to engulf our entire society. As such, private matters haven’t been private for years and shouldn’t be treated as such until proper protections are reinstated.

Although the institution of marriage & family is more damaged than our economy and in urgent need of a bailout, most of our leaders have given up on us a long time ago. Innate human needs are now secondary to the almighty dollar, immoral parent, amoral scholar, con-fused expert, infallible dishonorable leader or morally ill luminary. By now, it’s harder to get a credit card than to get in the head of an innocent child or a vulnerable adult. Oddly, support and protection against identity theft is already a reality, while theft of children’s childhood or inalienable rights, virginity, intelligence, stability & destiny is being con-fused, subsidized or socialized in large part by public education, exploitative media and “defective” government laws or programs. It has never been a secret that countless children are under the spell of ill luminaries and under the care of questionable teachers, mentors, foster parents, grandparents or stepparents instead of “both” natural parents—although some families are still able to maintain their independence & integrity, that’s rarely the case for most families violated by the unconstitutional nature of No-fault Divorce Laws & Experts.

Ever since illegal laws enabled all “ambassadors of ill will” to rob ethical adults of choice or “free will” & full rights to their own children, recourse & protection continue to be prohibited by law. Because con-fused adults empowered themselves to have more “authority” than stable adults, “ethical individuals, stable families, traditional values or religions” are destined for extinction. If most family dissolutions will not dilute or end the integrity, stability or faith of our families, No-fault laws & experts will. Since most traditional religions, experts & Republicans would rather switch than fight for traditional family values, most victims continue to be without choice, chance & voice. Without authoritative leaders & laws, both of our safety nets—family & society—continue to be broken. As such, as we abandon God or our loved ones, we change or create new religions to fit the demands of adulterous, homosexual or “other private” relationships. Needless to say, while problems with abortion or homosexuality are very serious, they were never as detrimental to every individual & family as No-fault divorce laws. Oddly, instead of fighting to overturn faulty “No-fault” laws, “experts’” continue to waste their time & money on symptoms instead of the main Crisis which is at the root of all toxic addictions, syndromes & symptoms. By NOW, it’s tragic that even most leaders cannot NAME 10 traditional values much less protect them or incorporate them into their own lives. As such, as they dismiss our society’s Crisis as a “private matter,” they actually cause graver harm than the initial betrayal or abuse in our hearts & homes. Most of us—including our leaders—already know that giving “No-fault Divorce & Custody” to con-fused, addicted or adulterous parents is the same as giving alcohol & guns to a drunk driver. Oddly, even though “No-fault” is the biggest family fraud in history, leaders are already dealing with economic & voter frauds but continue to defraud us with “No-Fault.”

“Justice delayed is justice denied.” Should politicians file a wrongful adulteration suit? When we catch political leaders engaging in “unspecified conduct,” legal violations or private corruption, they MIGHT still get a dishonorable mention. Oddly, top business leaders are allowed to cheat on their spouses without too much social disapproval but God forbid they try to cheat us out of our money! Then, the third charmed group is reserved for our celebs—they are allowed to do almost anything they want. In fact, some celebs even gain notoriety only because they have a bad reputation. Yet, when it comes to politicians, even though their accusers often hide or ignore misconduct in their own lives, limited justice MIGHT be served. Even spouses & children of adulterous public offenders MIGHT still get empathy & help. The private sector is not so fortunate—for most adults and children, justice will not be served—instead of compassion & protection they will be blamed, shamed, defamed, denigrated, threatened, scared, silenced & forced to move on. To heighten the hypocrisy & pain, “specified conduct,” legal abuse or private brutality of individuals in the private sector will usually get a free pass & legal empowerment. To date, abandonment, betrayal or adultery might end one’s political career but careers, images and incomes of most offenders in the private sector will usually be enhanced. Oddly, despite state-of-the-art laws, rights & intelligence, the third gravest illness or crime in America after murder & physical abuse, continues—self and other abuse continue to be as dangerous as they are popular. By now, a Jew who is not Jewish seems as tragic as a liberal who is not tolerant. Similarly, a Catholic Democrat might have been an option years ago, but today it’s as con-fusing as . . . . . . . . ! Unfortunately, end of our sentence & cruel or unusual punishment for years of hard labors, love & responsibility is currently not an option—with many leaders embroiled in their own “private” corruption or affairs and with continual blows of unnatural CHANGE to the “core of our souls,” violations at the root of our Crisis continue to be veiled and protected.

If life was only about politics, economy & national security or if all was well within the laws & lives of the “private” sector, today’s politics, media & business of life as usual might be right on target. Sadly, the opposite is true—change can’t start from the bottom up—in a cruel irony, after those at the top engineered & forced us into a bottomless snake pit, they dare to inspire us to escape or fight for ourselves or our country. To realize that protection of self and others is impossible without just laws and leaders does not take much “brain power or a diploma”—it only takes a degree in hypocrisy. As such, there are times when some of our leaders seem to be more clueless than our children—as seen on TV and in the privacy of our own souls or homes, college education & character formation are not always one and the same. Needless to say, because current state of our union is in chaos, protection might not be an option until truth in information has been disseminated and integrated within all major realms of our society.

Because religious & civil rights have undergone the same type of demise as our economy, all of us are at risk. By now, gaps in our gaffes are so huge that protection, peaceful coexistence and integration are presently humanly & legally impossible. With growing differences between “Judeo-Christian anthropology” and “modern trends, laws or psychology,” one-size-fit-all laws or treatments are currently as ludicrous as they are unjust & hazardous. Oddly, even though solutions are available, most leaders are not—some are genuinely misinformed or overruled while others are untouchable or unreachable. To enhance our dilemma, it has already been proven that experts who accuse their own colleagues of being out of touch with reality and society are often in greater need of a reality check than those they analyze or criticize. Then there are leaders in a class all of their own—while Rev. Wright’s and Father Pflager’s ideology seems very questionable, NONE can question their passion. One would think if the same type of passionate leadership was aimed at our society’s family Crisis, ALL other problems would eventually diminish. Given that multiple truths are in and traditional values are out, the decks have been stacked. Since most conservatives are no longer conservative and most liberals are becoming more liberal, who is looking out for US? NO ONE—most leaders or pundits are FIRST looking out for their own private agendas, money or fame.

Needless to say, drilling for truth must become as important as drilling for oil. With abuse all around us, there is no excuse. Or, is there an excuse for Senator Biden’s support for homosexuality & abortion when such actions seem inconsistent with his Catholic religion? Does it make any difference whether President Bush & Senator McCain are being unjustly vilified by liberal bullies, or whether Governor Palin, Senator & Mrs. Obama are attacked for their passion or whether a child is bullied in school—the scores, sores & sources are one and the same! Naturally, since the bad old boy & girl network is as powerful as ever, they’re also powerful enough to deny the truth & US—as they support & protect each other’s violations, adulteration of our souls & nation is becoming unstoppable and highly volatile. To date, mainstream Americans are as choiceless as they are powerless and voiceless. Due to the “delicate” nature of our Crisis, most of us prefer to ignore or excuse “private” violations in our own hearts, homes or society. It’s only natural that all of us find it easier to talk about the houses we built or decorated instead of the houses and lives we destroyed. Public media seems to do the same—they’ll showcase private, community or humanitarian Home & Body Makeovers but offer no do-overs for the lives destroyed by their caustic programming. Unfortunately, because Faulty Media & No-fault are to each family what an earthquake is to a community, until both are reformed, keeping our Crisis out of the public forum or courts is not an option. By now, the default of forced silence, kindness or tolerance of perpetrators has evolved into a disastrous double-cross—Lack of Empowerment & Lack of Truth in Information emboldens perpetrators to get stronger, more abusive or sicker while defenseless enslavement of violated children and adults makes them vulnerable & weaker. With children being at the center of our society’s Crisis, intentional ignorance, prohibition or overruling of justice by authorities as well as private individuals would not only be negligent but also dangerous. Even if “experts” find it difficult to understand the financial & spiritual violations of “No-fault” on private victims, the “overall” spiritual damages and economic drain on our society are supersized to the point that damages cannot be denied by ANY rational human being.

All religious leaders should hold themselves accountable for ignoring violations of God’s laws and people placed under their care and protection. Similarly, experts of the AMA, ABA, APA & all secular leaders should hold themselves accountable for ignoring the pain and damages created by No-fault divorce and custody laws as well as for dissemination false information or violation of traditional values through ABC, CBS, NBC & all other Media. Pain of broken hearts & lives should have been a divorce-breaker—a fail-safe game-changer should have been the enormous amount of evidence as to spiritual & physical damages to EVERYONE’s lives—every major betrayal is a divorce from our own good, each other or for some, God. As such, the only ones who benefit from a divorce are the professionals who continue to defend it instead of protecting violated victims and our society. After all, the fact that God and the victims hate divorce is as obvious as their pain. Yet, it is just as important to acknowledge that divorce is an unnecessary, hurtful and dangerous stepping stone for adultery. Serious marital traumas in need of physical safety, financial stability and parental authority can be resolved through a “faithful” separation with sole child custody. If No-fault laws were reformed to provide spiritual & financial justice, after a few years of dissemination of information, desire to divorce and remarry would diminish—in time, divorce would return to its original state where only seriously dysfunctional or adulterous spouses would divorce and remarry. Because religions forbid cooperation with evil, just laws for religious victims would ensure that spouses who opt for divorce and remarriage are disqualified from shared custody—in order to protect the religious integrity of the victims, adulterous spouses should only qualify for custom designed visitation rights until children are 18 years old. Even psychology will confirm that only these types of reforms can provide religious, mental, physical, emotional, social and legal protection or justice for the victims as well as maintain their integrity, faith and moral or parental authority over their children. Needless to say, because religious families have the same core needs as non-religious families, if they so desire, non-religious victims should have similar options based on their desire to maintain an ethical or honorable way of life.

WE are the signs of our times. Could it be that the doctor needs a doctor? Should the standard for “danger to self or others” be expanded to include “unrepentant adulterous spouses, experts, criminals, politicians or CEO’s?” Should brainwashing techniques of most “experts” and drug companies be altered instead of our minds and lives? Should our lives be shaped by toxic mates, pills or our beliefs? Should laws & lives be enforced by con-fused experts? Contrary to modern bunk, religion is not a tool of fear or submission as much as it is a natural school of self-discipline, bliss and salvation for individuals and nations. If traditional religion is practiced within a natural, minimal hypocrisy, the need for courts, jails, wars and major government interventions is minimal. Traditional religion calls for keeping holy the Lord’s day—not month, year or practicing religion once in a blue moon. All of us are too painfully aware of the toxic exposure in our homes, schools & businesses or on the internet & television—to drag our children to a house of worship every Sunday should be a joy because it might be one of the few remaining sources that all of us need the most—REAL PROTECTION and REAL BRAIN WASHING. Unfortunately, because many adults are no longer fans of religion, God or Jesus, neither are their children. If they are opting for other sources of “truth & honor,” they might maintain stability—unfortunately, most do not. As such, due to the toxic nature of our ego-system, some continue to cling to guns & religion while others opt for self-help books, exercise, pills, condoms, surgeries, hobbies or a combination of any of these “personal assistants.” Then, there are those who just don’t give a damn and manipulate their way through life with selfishness and indifference. For now, the option to divorce or remarry will continue to be a dangerous but popular part of our society. To date, none of us want to give up the peace & protection that most of our “options” offer, because we have been misinformed & conditioned to think of them as honorable or responsible solutions. Logic would dictate that, peace at any price is no peace—no individual or scholar can deny that many of our actions are a direct violation of God’s laws as well as laws of nature. Since every action comes with a natural reaction, many of our choices have already proven to be quite damaging and at times, volatile, lethal or deadly. One would think that our major problem is not with abuse, abortion, abandonment, addictions, adultery, or all the “others” in-between the elusive z’s—our main problem is with lack of truth, remorse, apologies, change, protection and help for the victims as well as perpetrators.

Naturally, as proven by our family & economic Crises, being a leader or an expert is no small or easy task. Usually, the greatest injustice against our leaders comes in the form of harsh criticism and lack of gratitude from those who are more dysfunctional than those they scorn. Constructive criticism and righteous anger are very different from what we usually experience in our homes or society—instead of scorn or violence, admonition should be done with kindness towards the person and only attack corrupt actions or behaviors. Needless to say, stable people in control of their lives are usually able to offer controlled & just criticism much easier than people who are dysfunctional as well as honest people who are unjustly deprived of their rights, empowerment and dignity. As such, although criticism and justified anger come in all shapes and sizes, the source & solutions are one and the same. Fortunately, despite most personal or public violations, being an American is a gift of honor and responsibility unlike any other. NO ONE can deny the countless blessings bestowed upon us by our government, religion, psychology, medicine, law, media, education, entertainment, business and all of our advancements—nonetheless, the greater good of our society must always overrule corruption within any major realms of our society.

It is intimated that after their faux pas in “The Garden of Eden,” Adam & Eve were expelled. Today, things are not much different—if a guest in our home would violate or force us to change our way of life, such a guest would also be expelled. Since America is also our home, NO ONE has the right to impose their ideology or change the core fundamentals of our society. Since its birth, America and God have been a match made in heaven—atheists, agnostics, secular progressives—pretty much people of all “all” philosophies are welcome to share in America’s Blessings but NO ONE should dare to CHANGE our country. After eliminating all inherited corruption such as slavery and inequality, America will always continue to evolve but all change will continue to incorporate past, present and future wisdom for the greater good of the people. Since people are the core or soul of America, our broken hearts and dreams of peace or love are inseparable. Whether one believes in God’s plan for humanity or a godless plan for the greater common good of our society, the answer is one and the same. God or life and our need for love both come with a guarantee that everyone will enjoy or return to their own “goods,” sooner or later. Because good is good and truth is truth, religious lives based on God or the Great I AM should be highly similar to secular or non-religious lives based on IEM—Intellectual-Emotional Mastery.

To protect the guilty and the innocent, anonymity or generality are almost a necessity. WHENEVER POSSIBLE, use of “expert, leader, luminary & others” minimizes the need for use of private & public names—unless people’s names are part of public record & use of their name is vital to make a point, it is much more enjoyable to use someone’s name to commend & defend them. Needless to say, with the interdependent nature of our private & public lives, WE are the “not so mysterious experts” with “special” interests or roles throughout various stages of our lives. Given that a foolscap and a halo are innate to every human being, pondering upon “Love of our Life” should be more of about fixing our blunders instead of bashing and plunder. After all, life should be all about loving each other and hating ideas or behaviors that hurt us. A divorce from our own good, each other or God cannot be good for us nor our society. Fortunately, one would think that all of us should qualify for a temporary amnesty—religion & psychology should confirm that all of us are probably innocent because NO ONE can be personally blamed nor shamed for years of corrupt cultural conditioning. Nonetheless, the urgent need for resolution of our society’s Crisis speaks through every child in America—to date, physical needs of our children are more important than their spiritual needs: because none of our children can enjoy their birthrights without emotional, intellectual or religious nurturing and protection, they must receive REAL love and protection NOW! Because our Crisis is much more dangerous than our leaders are willing to admit, all of us are entitled to truth in information or a warning as well as empowerment to design our own & our family’s life. It goes without saying that to keep our Crisis out of public media and/or courts will allow honorable philosophies or religions and therefore, lives or people to reach a point of no return. If truth be told, without a Hail Mary or a change in all agendas, a Republican or a Democratic win will continue to rob all of US—leaders & followers—of our goods!

Over 30 years ago, “special” people within our society began to expel traditional values and impose their personal corruption upon our society—accidentally on purpose, they continue to do so to this day by prohibiting restoration and empowerment of American values and people. Since traditional values are vital to stability and the greater good of every individual, family and country, NO ONE has the right to deny or overrule them. Change by desire is always more powerful than change by force—yet, if voluntary corrective measures are not instituted, a congressional investigation or a class action lawsuit should ensure immediate initiation of reforms, reparations and protections … “Oh, what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive!” … Whether one is a single individual, a parent with children, a professional or a national leader, “He that would govern others, FIRST should be the master of himself.” As such, “He only may chastise who loves.” … Mary Rose … “To cheat one’s self out of love is the greatest deception of which there is no reparation in either time or eternity.“

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