Host: Sam Beamer … Samctuary@aol.com … Mission Statement: … Love of My Life

If fake Democrats would get a divorce from the flakes in Hollywood, most of us wouldn’t have to … Change in exploitation & manipulation is not an option until victims are offered empowerment & truth. If Republicans were real keepers of traditional family values, divorces from our own good, each other or God would come to a natural dead end. Change in marital stability and moral-parental authority is not an option until Family Courts offer justice. “Love covers a multitude of sins” and creates a natural bond or equilibrium within marriages, families and society: for Better or for Worse, for Richer or for Poorer, In Sickness and in Health, Until Death Do Us Part.

“If there is but one truth, and you have that truth completely, toleration of differences means an encouragement to error, crime, evil, sin.” … “Religious tolerance is a kind of infidelity.”

Hate Crime? NOW that truth evokes hatred & danger in private as well as in public, it’s no longer a “private” matter of choice, rights to privacy nor freedom of speech with rights to artistic degeneration, expressing one’s toxic opinion or defamation of character. Just because abusers & criminals insist they have rights to violate others, it’s illogical to believe, justify, excuse or legalize their lies. Given that some of the “private” or “artistic” expressions have been so vile, laws need to be created, expanded or updated, instead of allowing some of the most heinous acts to be protected. Although it would be “absurd” to isolate & legislate truth on all levels, its public empowerment can do more good than thousands of laws. Naturally, truth in information & action are not only free but also easily verifiable. “Ethical truth is as exact and as peremptory as physical truth.” With public media as the greatest culprit behind loss of truth, accountability & reparations are vital—with truth being the fountain of good, lack of truth is nothing less than an order for a society to “cease and desist.”

End Social Malaise & Vote for Change?  CHANGE can be good or bad … To initiate the RIGHT CHANGE & to MAINTAIN ETHICAL INTEGRITY for the GREATER GOOD of our SOCIETY, CHANGE in our LEADERS’ AGENDAS MUST COME FIRST! Throwing around empty promises or money has always been a part of major elections. Truth in Information? When promises that we need aren’t even mentioned and money being promised will cause more harm than good, instead of calling it an election or choice we should call it exploitation of people’s desperation or needs. As already proven by the rich, sick & famous, even a significant increase in insufficient funds of “mass bribes” and even the best health-care programs WILL NOT cure, suffice or diminish our society’s Crisis. As such, fans of fanning the wrong fires are as dangerous as some of the media coverage or ads—”heads” of empty promises or attacks are in need of a reality check because insults to our intelligence are so blatant that only con-artists & their victims will not see through the pomposity, absurdity & danger!

21st Century Catch-22 … Insanity of Legal Violations … NOW that years of liberal cultural conditioning have been crowned by an unprecedented media blitz to energize all their cells—young & old, rich & poor, male & female—from this day forward, all Presidents of the United States will be elected by the media, not by votes.  To follow suit, majority of private & public interactions will lean to the left or continue to enjoy even more liberal levels of modernism.  Given that chances & choices for traditionalists range between slim to nonexistent, there is only one option.  Truth—Truth is the Root & Bond of Life.  Without truth there is no justice—without justice there is no law, order, integrity, loyalty, empowerment, honor or love.     

“What is truth?  For the multitude, that which it continually reads and hears …. What the Press wills, is true.  Its commanders evoke, transform, interchange truths. Three weeks of press-work, and the ’truth’ is acknowledged by everybody.”  Not every issue will pass this litmus test—some issues take longer than 3 weeks while some will NEVER change.  Nonetheless, despite the fact that vote manipulation is only a symptom of a deeper problem, ALL will object to vote fraud but not to forced social engineering of our lives nor its damages to individuals and society. 

The Change we Need is Possible, but neither Democrats nor Republicans are Offering a Whole-In-One!  With both parties currently out of touch with the American people, a Democratic win comes with a guarantee of more damages to all of us—a Republican win seems to offer similar damages but at a slower rate of return.  Naturally, just as President Bush has been very sincere in his efforts, so have Senators McCain and Obama—nonetheless, with all three leaders espousing three different ideologies, three different agendas cannot be right nor the frightful possibility of a liberal supermajority. 

Although President Bush has been unjustly treated by his own party & within the court of public opinion, he might be the only one with a proven record of fighting for the good of mainstream Americans. Even if his private beliefs might differ and his support for the Federal Marriage Amendment was limited, President Bush applied his leadership towards the greater good of all families. On the other hand, Senator Obama doomed protection of American families by calling the amendment a waste of time—”I know this amendment will fail”—there goes The Audacity of Hope and Tears are Here to Stay. Obviously, his decision was made on a superficial level without making the connection to its roots. If Senator Obama’s parents or teachers & preachers did not teach him about elementary needs of a society or the biological differences between “boys & girls,” common sense should have kicked in after his marriage. Such chain of events is usually true for all of us—after a rebellious youth & avoidance of truth, most of us do not transition into traditional maturity until we marry and have children. Unfortunately, like majority of the younger generation, Senator Obama seems to be a product of a mostly liberal society. As such, he seems to believe in honoring his own traditional marriage but not the institution of marriage itself—he also seems to believe in protecting his own children but not others. As a private individual, such options might be normal. As a community organizer, he has no excuse—Senator and Mrs. Obama are personally and deeply aware of the agony and helplessness of most African-Americans and others in similar situation. As such, more than any other leaders, Senator Obama should have made family stability & empowerment an integral part of the Democratic agenda. Had he done so, after months of public campaigning, exposure & opportunity, hope of real change might already be a reality.

Needless to say, with Senator McCain having the benefit of a traditional society throughout his childhood as well as suffering through a personal trauma of a divorce, there is no excuse for his indifference to No-fault injustice or for having “differences” of opinion with Governor Palin over her support of the Federal Marriage Amendment.  Naturally, if social stability was under control, there would be no need for constitutional amendments or media reforms.  Similarly, if family stability was under control, the need for No-fault divorce reform would not exist & neither would the need to include historically “private” issues in politics nor in public media.  However, because our country’s family Crisis has been shaped by public laws, media & courts of public opinion, family matters haven’t been “private” for almost 40 years. 

True or False:  “We live in a culture that would absolutely fall apart if the truth were told.”

None of us get up in the morning and deal with “national” issues before personal issues—it’s only natural for our own & our family’s needs to always come first. Because money and health care are as innate to every American as personal or family stability, sweeping family problems under the red carpet has been disastrous. As such, the connection between broken lives & sound leadership speaks for itself. Needless to say, there are many complex reasons why Democrats and Republicans treat family stability as a non-issue. Although addressing family matters during political campaigns would help to restore honorable stability for our families & country, it would do a lot of damage to both, Republicans and Democrats. Because “private or family” issues have escalated into a highly volatile dilemma, both parties perceive them as political suicide. Consequently & regrettably, both parties opted for winning the election instead of fighting to protect US and the US—just because relatively few “special interest” groups have a great deal of money & power, mainstream Americans have been sold to the highest bidder. By now, pretty much almost all opposition has been suppressed. There are relatively few objections to abuse of power within the public arena as well as self or other abuse in the private sector—most abuses are becoming “consensual” and enjoyable. As public reality & liberal talk-shows continue to dominate, traditional values rarely get a break—according to some sources, since Dr. Laura Schlessinger who “preaches, teaches, and nags” about morals, values, and ethics” has been threatened off the air a few years ago, only lips of the libs seem wise & special enough to educate and entertain us on the ABC’s of life and all public media. While liberals still allow traditionalists to speak, lack of an “all traditional talk show” on ABC, CBS or NBC speaks for itself—while traditional politics will sometimes get a break, traditional family values will not—one would think that they are almost illegal and have been barred from public airwaves because of their obscenity.

Just as parents need to maintain strong & sound leadership within their own homes, so do leaders of our society.  Honor for one’s family & country is one and the same.  No religious or secular scholar can deny that protection of our families against corrupt laws and media should have been a priority for both parties.  Oddly, actions of Senators Obama & McCain are in line with majority of our society—since most of us have made countless blunders throughout our own lives, most of us do not wish to revisit our past or to talk about change.  Although majority of us will never get over the pain & damages of ”No-fault,” most of us want to keep divorce laws as they are so as to keep our options open.  Nonetheless, avoiding the truth or legislating blunders into law is an injustice and danger unlike any other.  As such, ANY leader aspiring to be the President of the United States or ANY “expert” in a position of public influence, should ONLY be allowed to do so if they are capable of understanding & protecting core needs of individuals & society. 

It takes a great deal of audacity and brainwashing to compare the dilemma of civil unions to the separate-and-unequal status blacks were relegated to during segregation.  Every African-American should feel insulted.  ”The content of one’s character” or lifestyle is not the same as the color of one’s skin.  In fact, same-sex relationships are more akin to adulterous relationships because both separate sexual pleasure from logic, nature, responsibility & fidelity or for some, God.  As such, instead of playing politics with our lives, it would do our society more good if leaders like Senator Obama and McCain would address the truth—manipulation or engineering of our society has been so blatant, dangerous and powerful that the trail of betrayal goes beyond the Clinton Presidency all the way to the times of President Reagan.  

All of us should be shocked but not surprised that private & public violations of traditional American values are escalating instead of diminishing—damages are so vast that most parents trying to defend the truth in their own homes are often abused or accused by their own spouses or children as being dimwitted, hateful & vindictive—similarly, when conservative leaders try to defend the truth in the public square, all liberal “thinkers” accuse them of being angry, malicious & intolerant idiots.  As we speak, we’re silenced in our homes or society and only have the right to remain silent!  As we watch our children being bullied by our mates, relatives or abusive friends & enemies, our only choice is to pray and do damage control.  If all vital aspects of our lives were equal under the law, conservatives would not have to “keep their heads down and their mouths shut.” Women would not be told to “shut their traps.”  Due to daily escalation in damages, most statistics on abuse might be quite inaccurate.  Yet, aside from the large numbers of women & men who divorce, around “three quarters of those that don’t are unhappy.” Our children’s past, present & future are not very happy either: Most will not find trust, love & security in their homes, schools nor in our society—as stated in “Home-Alone America by the social scientist Mary Eberstadt: ‘child well-being’ has been judged to be in scandalous decline.”  Tragically, because most leaders aren’t wise enough to discern between character formation & education, most have been pushing college degrees instead of truth & honor.

We demanded a smokeless & wireless network, but not a liarless network. It’s odd that we were wise enough to hold a summit on obesity, but not on obscenity. In their ever famous art of distraction, “experts” claim that movies glorifying cigarette smoking are one of the greatest dangers to our children. If “experts” deem an “R” rating of such movies as mandatory, the same should apply to almost every show on ABC, CBS & NBC dominated by premarital sex, cohabitation, homosexuality, divorce, remarriage, swinging and all other popular “alternatives.” Or, perhaps we should start by rating psychologists—PsychoBabble, by Dr. Ed Bulkley, is of great importance to all of us but probably NOT to one of the major enablers of our Crisis: the American Psychiatric Association—by default, once the APA gave the green light to homosexuality, religious laws became obsolete and by now, their followers have been called every degrading name in the book. One would think that political labels are not much different—should we start rating journalists or commentators and other experts—as intimated by Mr. Bernard Goldberg, media Bias tends to ID political figures as “conservative” but rarely adds a “liberal” label to the names of “media elites” & legendary luminaries. Are we surprised that some children, spouses & parents are cool & hot while some are square & cruel?

Are traditionalists or religious truly represented & empowered or muzzled & powerless? 

All of us can “agree to disagree” about the color of a tie, but not about the noose around our neck. Hindering, overruling & outlawing of conservative philosophies is a highly dangerous fact of life—it’s not a harmless point of discussion. With great hostility & authority “experts” have all but proclaimed private & public conservatives as incompetent “anti-intellectual dolts” and losers—as such, conservative parents have as much leverage in their homes as conservative leaders have in our society. Currently, intelligent debates or discussions might even cause more damage because conservatives are usually outnumbered and without the same private & public base of support as liberals.

Since over 90% of us claim religious roots, “we the people” should be flourishing as “one nation under God.” Sadly, painful facts and reality speak for themselves. After liberal media saturation of our hearts, homes and society, none of us are surprised that liberal democrats continue to gain more ground, power, votes and control over our lives and society. Is there a chance that this is all a big, unintentional mistake? Not quite—all of us are well aware—especially those at the top—that our government, society & families form as close a bond as the holy trinity—we’re interdependent & inseparable. The same formula applies to each individual & family. Although tactics and numbers have been reconfigured, the same “marketing skills” used by travelling salesmen of the old west are applied today with the help of daily updates & upgrades in deception offered by modern technology. There is only one reality that cannot be reconfigured—God.

Modern geniuses are quite aware of the danger & power behind “religion.” Consequently, unable to compete with God, they regulated his exposure and now, most traditional religions are either out of business or in pre-foreclosure. To date, threats of taxes hold ‘em under such tight control that rather than risk their tax exempt status they opted for silence and loss of souls. Given that all genuine religions mostly survive on private donations, there is no reason to deny them tax-exempt status even if they reclaim their God-given authority & mandate to preach & protect their lost sheep in private & in public. After all, current application of Church & State Separation is not only illogical & illegal but also not in the best interest of our society—in its present form, it’s for the greater good of a few who want protection & freedom to deny others their protection & freedom. No religious or secular scholar can deny that ANY traditional religion has the power to create greater private and public stability than an army of doctors, lawyers, therapists, politicians and law enforcement officers. Oftentimes, the choice between church or jail seems elementary to all except liberals. Since most religious leaders provide their services free of charge and since our society is in the deepest Crisis of modern times, it’s an atrocity not to opt for religious leadership in concert with advancements in medicine, psychology, law, business & government. But then, to be logical & liberal is not always a good fit. By now, every issue precious to traditional Republicans will be disproved by a mountain of evidence from liberal Republicans or Democrats and vice versa. Needless to say, only highly “intelligent” people can argue over value of dissemination or protection of truth & good versus deception & violations! Do we really want equal rights to equal lack of bias towards truth, responsibility and good?

FACT or MYTH … TRUTH—the Whole Truth & Nothing but the Truth—an Option or a Mandate?

1. Years ago, Jehovah’s Witnesses did not endorse President Bush—they don’t even vote!

2. Now, the Pope did not endorse Senator Barack Obama for President—Ms. Oprah Winfrey did!

Although Catholic publications promote Faithful Citizenship, candidates’ names or parties are not even mentioned—other religions are similarly restricted by laws of church-state separation. Naturally, it’s pointless to argue over the political power of a private “generic publication” compared to the most popular talk show on public television—although Ms. Oprah usually focuses on relationships, not politics, “Great & rapid changes in human opinions have been produced far less by the force of reasoning than by the authority of a name.” Within recent years, one word from Ms. Oprah is taken by many as gospel truth!

What about the gospel truth of Dr. Colleen Kelly Mast, Dr. Robin L. Smith, Dr. Phil or Mr. Tom Cruise. Given our “multiple truth” syndrome, should we add a new truth or religion to the mix—”In Godless, Coulter throws open the doors of the Church of Liberalism.” … “If a Martian landed in America and set out to determine the nation’s official state religion, he would have to conclude it is Liberalism, while Christianity and Judaism are prohibited by law.” … “Many Americans are outraged by liberal hostility to traditional religion. But as Ann Coulter reveals in this, her most explosive book yet, to focus solely on the Left’s attacks on Judeo-Christian tradition is to miss a larger point: liberalism is a religion—a godless one. And it is now entrenched as the state religion of this country. Though liberalism rejects the idea of God and reviles people of faith, it bears all the attributes of a religion.” As such, Separation of Church & State is forced upon traditional religions but separation from religious brainwashing by liberals is not even an option. To date, the “provably false legal theory of church-state separation” has nothing to do with justice and everything to do with abuse of power.

If God is the “Father of Truth” & the devil is the “Father of Lies,” what is the origin of our Lies at the Altar, home & society. It’s no lie that hostility to traditional religion, is hostility directed to the children, singles, mothers & fathers of mainstream America. Quite possibly, there is no greater pain, danger & damage to an individual or a society, than a parent who is being privately or publicly humiliated, silenced & brutalized in front of their own child—we kill two souls with one stone! When parents are rendered helpless, the ultimate price for all private abuses or most of the luminary fame & fortune is paid by our children. Judging by “internet statistics” & other data, Britney Spears is among the heroines, Brad Pitt is among the heroes, search for sexual gratification is constant while gratitude to God is rare, and last but not least, President Bush is not only wrong but often treated with irrational & vile hostility as in the BDS. As if, how does a 15-year-old child learn that ANY President of the United States is Stupid? Do our children arrive at their gospel truth with the help of their parents, friends, school or media? Equally as detrimental is the fact that most of our children have too few conservative role models in their personal environment & in the public forum!

Who’s Who? Who is incompetent & who’s out of touch with reality? All of us know that Liberal Democrats have been our Legendary Kings or Queens of TV & denial for years. By now, they’re powerful enough to morph Republicans into Liberals. Oddly, even Conservative Democrats cannot confirm or deny the truth: they’d end up in the same situation as Mr. Bernard Goldberg & CBS—he never had a sporting chance! “The liberals can understand everything but people who don’t understand them.”

If ABC, NBC & CBS & all other media were in the business of fair and balanced information, our lives and even politics would be quite different. Today’s “politics” are no longer limited to public regulations, economy and national security. As such, if the Republican party had maintained its status as the party of traditional American values, most Americans would be Republicans because of the indisputable truth or needs of every individual & family. Marriages or families would be more solid and parentals might actually enjoy honor & obedience from their children. Although the battles over messy rooms might remain questionable, at least morality would become clear. Even our religious hypocrisy might be different—we might actually allow God or Jesus to join us at school or the office, instead of leaving them “home alone.” Abandonment of God almost always translates to abandonment of people. The fact that most of our dreams are being derailed is elementary—one of the main reasons is a classic lack of support or empowerment for traditional lifestyles. Although people have been fighting over the damages & injustice for years, some “experts” claim there are “no victims, only volunteers.” If truth be told, victimization has actually escalated to the point of a Crisis mostly because laws & experts are its biggest enablers—then, there are those who are actually big fans & participants of dysfunction. Given our enslavement to faulty attitudes, laws & experts, most mainstream Americans gave up fighting City Hall a long time ago!

One can “Agree to Disagree” only if one is given equal empowerment. Currently, the cruel game of liberal monopoly is a democratic atrocity. Its cause & effect cycles corrupted political balance as well as the stability of private individuals & families—although the gap between conservatives & liberals continues to widen, peaceful coexistence in the public arena is possible but not within a family. As such, all of us deserve to get our free “get out of jail card.” We can “agree to disagree” or “change” only after traditional & modern philosophies are equally validated within our media. Currently, countless options are offered in theory but not in practice. Damages within our private, social & political realms are as blatant as the “lawful & awful” obstruction of traditional religions—by now, civil hypocrisy is very similar to moral schizophrenia. As if, adultery or parental “betray-all” is not much different than betrayal of public trust.

What is the real truth behind veiled lives, hidden pain & smiling faces of the “advantaged?” Since women’s & children’s love or need for men are elementary, truth about procreation & marriage is crucial not only to re-pairing our relationships but also to life itself. Sadly, a husband having two or more legal wives is an old hypocritical privilege enjoyed by adulterers, polygamists and even some “Politically Correct Catholics.” After a civil divorce, the Catholic husband takes a “new civil wife” while the abandoned wife remains his “religious wife” for life. Thanks to modern equality, Catholic & non-Catholic wives have been unleashing the same brutality upon their husbands & children. On the other hand, there are those who feel that a piece of paper will make their brutal betrayal honorable—as such, “Religiously Correct Catholics” deceive themselves to obtain a No-fault Divorce & a Decree of Nullity. Even though they opt for the same process where the Catholic wife or husband takes on a “new civil spouse,” because of growing abuses of church laws, adulterous spouses are usually given greater honor & empowerment than their victims. As such, it’s not a mystery which parent or religion will be honored by their children. The “advantage” of being abandoned creates the same trauma for women as for men. Although it is easier to prove “religious” violations, betrayal is painful to the religious & non-religious alike. Anyone who feels no pain is misinformed or already dysfunctional as verified by the statistics where 1 in 25 lack conscience. Because No-fault divorce continues to reward the guilty & punish the innocent, pain and statistics also continue to increase. Liberals applaud it, true conservatives fight & loathe it mostly because custody issues rob parents of their moral & parental authority. The worst part of divorce is not the divorce itself but fact that children are used as a shield to make adulterous parents look decent because majority of the laws are in the best interest of the child only on paper. Naturally, promiscuity, abortion, divorce & remarriage are all relatives! Consequently, too many of us no longer think of bad as bad, arrogance as arrogant, brutality as brutal, pain as pain!

Tragically, when it comes to marriage & stable family life for the “disadvantaged,” degradation of men, women & children is beyond pain & logic—to add to the distress, many are single mothers & most of their children are innocent victims of the “war in our own backyard,” home, heart & mind. Countless white “advantaged” men and women are spending a fortune in courts to buy their rights & protect their children—naturally, it’s a lost cause. The “disadvantaged” are lost even before they begin. Without discernment between right & wrong arrogant brutality will continue—without help from ABC, CBS, NBC, ABA, APA, AMA & others, avoidable cruelties will escalate. The way Dr. Phil, Ms. Oprah, Ms. O’Donnell, Ms. DeGeneres & Ms. Walters solve “the major problems in the country” is not always the same as traditional hosts, doctors, pastors & parents.

“If we continue to teach about tolerance & intolerance instead of good & evil, we will end up with tolerance of evil.” Our current social crisis transcends politics, religion, education, media, race or gender. No matter what the networks do within the next year or so, will not be enough to bring instant character, family or social reformation. Because our cultural brainwashing stems all the way from Washington right down to our suburban bullies and values, private & public elections are guaranteed to be flawed. It’s no surprise that almost everyone in America will feel insulted at the mere suggestion of being “brainwashed”—instead of treating the “whole human spirit within humanity itself,” our “experts” dispense temporary & separate band-aids as faulty as some of our laws. It’s tragic that some of our leaders have no desire to make the connection between “cultural brainwashing” and its devastation of private & public lives—on the other hand, leaders who wish to initiate needed changes are not allowed to do so. It will take decades to compensate for the damages & restore intellectual equilibrium, freedom & choice. As the hub of our information, the three major television networks (ABC, CBS & NBC) in concert with the three major empowerment networks (APA, ABA & AMA) are the only ones with enough power to equalize our society. They were able to achieve truth in advertising—likewise, truth of information is their & our mandate. Naturally, none of us are personally responsible for a conditioned con-fusion of all ages—nonetheless, truthful private & public empowerment is our inalienable necessity & a right.

The deck is stacked—further debates are pointless. All debates must give way to action for justice & empowerment. Leaders—as in politicians, journalists, experts or luminaries—who do not comprehend the need to resolve vital civil & religious issues at the federal and public levels, should not be leaders. Why vote “present,” pass the buck to the states or silence the people, especially when states have been nursing “failed policies” instead of wounded victims. Since victims of “No-fault” divorce may receive justice only because they live in New York and those living in Any Town, USA do not even qualify for justice, need for action at the federal level is not only obvious but also mandatory. Similarly, since many states & leaders favor legalization of same-sex marriages, only federal authority has enough power to regain stability, unity and protection. While crux of the Federal Marriage Amendment shares its roots with countless private & public issues, same-sex marriages are not the origin and as such, not the gravest danger to the institution of marriage & stability of American families. The unconstitutional nature of No-fault divorce laws has been demolishing our families since 1969 and continues to do so.

Had our astute leaders been wiser about their priorities and reformed No-fault divorce laws first, abortions, same-sex marriages, hate crimes, fatherlessness, motherlessness, lack of protection for children & others might be minimal. Unfortunately, because No-fault made Family Courts the legal clearing-house for distribution of lies, deception, injustice and misinformation, it also allowed dishonorable or malicious actions of abandoners, abusers or adulterous men & women to be given a legal seal of approval or praise. Because almost every divorce has one guilty and one innocent spouse,” No-Fault” made protection of truth or victimized spouses and children legally & humanly impossible. Once No-fault allowed dishonest cheaters and manipulators to be treated better than their victims in private and in public, by default, children and society could not distinguish between a divorced-guilty-adulterous-spouse and a divorced-innocent-victimized-spouse. By now, truth is rare—more and more dishonest, disloyal and at times, dangerous characters are welcomed in our homes, society and TV or smile all the way to the bank because No-fault silenced their victims into submission.

To date, most of us continue to be brainwashed to embrace “tolerance.” If that doesn’t do the job, we’re told “not to judge.” Use of such deceitful tactics created our Crisis and unfortunately, continues. After all, just as judges judge, every human being makes nonstop judgments regarding safety & choices—to judge or discern between bad or good thoughts, words or actions is part of our natural instincts & survival. Contrary to modern bunk, to judge another person’s behavior is NOT the same as judging that person’s soul. Similarly, to tolerate bad behavior makes no logical sense because every action comes with a natural reaction—as such, to tolerate lies or betrayal is to violate truth and faithfulness. While our intentions to embrace “all” are good & sincere, results have been disastrous. After years of tolerating evil, we find it difficult to tolerate truth. By now, when victims are given a rare opportunity to surface in public, they either get superficial empathy while the court of public opinion will treat many with such brutality & hostility that others dare not speak out. By now, no other perpetrator or criminal in our society has a better cover or blanket of security than a selfish, arrogant, lying & cheating abuser or criminal who violated his or her spouse & children—in the beginning they used to be our spouses, our relatives, our friends, co-workers, professionals, sports & entertainment stars. Considering that it was almost humanly impossible not to fall for popular lies, smiles and promises of elusive soulmates in search of “happiness,” many of us did the same. Needless to say, the greatest crime is not in betrayal or adultery but in lack of truth, remorse and reparations. All of us are destined to make mistakes and after sorrow, apologies & change, we’re entitled to forgiveness. 

Given that foster homes as well as nursing homes, mental health institutions and jails are filled with helpless victims, reforms in No-fault divorce & custody laws must have the same priority as our economy, national security and health care. Because spouses & children in physical or emotional danger are already able to obtain a legal separation, initial reforms should focus more on change in attitudes than change in laws. After all, a “faithful” separation is a better & safer solution for spouses as well as children—along with needed physical protection, a “faithful” separation does not violate the marriage and offers hope of reconciliation. Although separations have always been available, they are rarely used mostly due to desperation or misinformation—due to years of cultural brainwashing as to the “benefits” of divorce, a divorce will often encourage or push spouses towards infidelity, jealousy, anger and remarriage. Continual divorce cycles are not only damaging to every child, man and woman but also to our entire society. It is not necessary to ask for a “second opinion,” or to listen to more lies of the perpetrators nor to seek out victims to confirm their brutal reality—lack of Reform of No-fault laws is proof of perpetual direct or indirect confusion in the heart of every person in America. As such, most “political or professional experts” have been wrong all along—further silence or lack of resolution would be similar to assisting others to commit legally enforced spiritual-mass-suicide.

While almost every divorce has 1 guilty & 1 innocent spouse and children, ALL are victims. After almost 40 years of social & legal brainwashing, not one professional, victim or adulterous man or woman should be held personally responsible for our Society’s Crisis. A saint would have a hard time to sift through 24/7 of con-fused visual & audio imprints on private souls and families as well as our entire society. With truth and empowerment having been short circuited years ago, almost every adult encountered technical difficulties while most of our children never even had a chance to know or learn about truth, mutual love or responsibility and stable traditional families. Since there are relatively few survivors, very few maintain the right to point fingers. Most of us have to point fingers at ourselves and redirect our course towards truth, honesty, apologies, reparations, regret, forgiveness and true love.

Contrary to modern bunk, marriage is by far the optimal & ultimate of all relationships—In fact, unless one opts for a less popular but equally honorable lifestyle of a celibate humanitarian, there are no other honorable options. Had we not messed with Mother Nature, life’s choices would remain obvious & simple—needless to say, because we’ve changed natural cycles of birth & death, we created “other” alternative lifestyles which we deceive ourselves & enjoy as “good for us”—years of trials, errors & hardships have already proven all of us to be wrong & wronged.

To think of marriage as a lifetime prison sentence without the possibility of parole might make a cute joke but is very far from its reality. Although truth about marriage cannot be denied, almost all of us will dispute it. Nonetheless, “children” are the ultimate and indisputable proof of marital bliss as well as the need for a lifetime of fidelity & responsibility. As such, relationships where people cohabitate, divorce, live in a domestic partnership or marry without planning to have children are WRONG because they violate natural human order, needs and love.

Taking into account the failure of modern psychology & coaches, perhaps watching Groundhog Day should become part of every political, professional, sport & entertainment contract—to guard against new double-crosses and ensure that ALL leaders stay in touch with reality, family, society and honesty, perhaps it should be a bipartisan double feature—after all, what could change our leaders’ tune and make them sing like a canary better than The Sound of Music. Given that President Bush and Senators Obama and McCain have already proven their dancing skills, making a song & dance about life should be easy!

A wise person has said that America is like an eagle, needing “both wings to fly”—to heal the wounded soul of America, power of the right & the left wing must shift to put “people” first. Needless to say, NOTHING & NO ONE CAN KEEP AMERICA DOWN. As such, all of us should look forward to enjoying our birthrights under the Democratic & Republican wings of honorable & bold champions of people and America–the beautiful home of our dreams & destiny: to enjoy God’s shelter or to shine like the son—”Say to the Lord, ‘My refuge and my fortress, my God in whom I trust’” and, from beginning to end, “He will raise you up on eagle’s wings.”  Sam Beamer … “Let your love of justice be exceeded only by your love of mercy.”